Baby Body Language - What Is Your Baby Trying To Tell You?

Why Does your Baby Have Kicking Legs And Flailing Arms? We Look At How To Decode Baby Body Language And Work Out What Your Baby Is Trying To Communicate With Movement

When it comes to baby body language, is it possible to work out what your baby is trying to tell you from their movements?

Just because your baby can't talk to you yet doesn’t mean they aren’t trying to communicate with you.

There are lots of common baby movements, for example, flailing arms and kicking legs, kicking their feet, moving their head, clenching their fists, and thrashing their arms about, that happen for a reason.

Thankfully, there have been thousands of studies and years of parental experience to help us decode what our babies’ gestures are trying to say.

With experience, parents can work out what their own baby’s body language means. However, it can take some fine tuning at first! Remember that it’s okay if you can’t always understand what your little one‘s movements mean. You are still getting to know each other.

Remember to always as your doctor or health visitor if there is something you are unsure about, or there is something concerning you about your baby’s health.

Baby Reflexes – Instinctive Baby Movements

Your newborn is born with several baby reflexes, which are physical reflexes (movements or actions).

Babies are born knowing how to suck, which is how they latch on for breastfeeding. They are also born knowing how to root, and to grasp. Your doctor or midwife will check these shortly after they are born.

Another reflex that doctors will check in newborns is the Moro reflex, also called the startle reflex. This is where your baby’s arms will jolt. The doctor will test this by safely allowing them to fall for a small distance. The baby should respond by jolting or flinging out both arms, which means the reflex is present.

Here Are More Common Baby Movements And What They Mean:

Kicking Legs and Flailing Arms

If your baby’s kicking legs and flailing arms are accompanied by crying, or they seem agitated, it could be that they are gassy. Try winding them after a feed. If this is not a one-off occurrence, your baby could have symptoms of colic. Speak to your doctor or health visitor for advice.

However, if they are kicking legs and have flailing arms but don’t appear to be in pain, hungry or distressed, it’s unlikely that there is anything wrong. They could also simply be asking you to play with them.

Arm Jerks Or Flailing Arms While Sleeping

Don’t worry if you spot your little one jolting their arms when they’re asleep, this is a sign of the Moro reflex or startle reflex, which all babies are born with.

Your baby will throw their arms out and back when they’re startled by something, like a bright light or perhaps something in their sleep. Many adults still jerk their legs in their sleep too, but it often goes unnoticed.

Scrunched Knees

If your baby is scrunching up their knees, and seems agitated, this could be a sign that your baby has wind or is constipated.

You can resolve this by ensuring you are properly burping your baby during and after feeding.