When Emma's baby boy Campbell was born at 39 weeks, she didn't expect to have a traumatic birth. Here Emma shares how she navigated their NICU experience, and got through those difficult days, with help and support from Bliss.
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Emma’s Story – Campbell’s Birth
I was 39+1 weeks pregnant when I went into labour. I hadn't worried at all about giving birth during my pregnancy, but I’d underestimated how traumatic birth could actually be.
17 hours of labour left me broken but by 11 am on 9 November 2021, it was time to start pushing and at 11:33 am my beautiful baby boy Campbell entered the world. The first 24 hours were a dream - I managed to breastfeed and fell in love with my baby. After birth, I was told I had pre-eclampsia and would need to stay in hospital longer to recover, but my husband had to leave due to Covid.
The second night we were in hospital my world fell apart. At around 2 am I knew something wasn’t right and called for the midwife. The second time they brought a NICU nurse who said she would take Campbell away to check on him so I could rest, but there didn't seem to be anything wrong. I tried to rest and around an hour later the nurse and midwife came back and informed me my son had been having seizures and had stopped breathing during them so had been ventilated.
Over the coming days Campbell had treatment, tests and scans. We were given the most devastating news that our son had suffered a perineal stroke, which means it occurred during labour or up to two weeks before.
We were told the prognosis was not great - Campbell probably wouldn't be able to swallow and would have impacted on his motor skills. We cried and cried - we couldn't understand why this had happened. Our consultant confirmed it was very rare for a stroke to occur in a full-term baby and there was nothing we could have done to prevent it. Maybe we’ll never find out why it happened although we are still pushing for answers.
However, Campbell continued to strengthen in hospital. Our first milestone was taking him off tube feed and seeing if he could feed from me. After a couple of days of trying to confirm he could swallow and had his gag reflex, he did it.
I cried again, amazed at my little warrior, and after two weeks Campbell was discharged with a care plan with a neurosurgeon, a physiotherapist and his NICU consultant.
That was back in November 2021. Campbell reached 19 weeks old this week and he has hit every milestone so far.
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